Honken I use Fantasy Grounds as the VTT
I believe @DT-PINTS used to really like Fantasy Grounds, at the time I didn't see much difference between it and Roll20. And FG was much more expensive, however I just noticed this morning that FG is available steam and on sale. So I might give it a second look. Although the need for players to also have licenses is a bit of a downer.
My preference for video, might be temporary I played plenty of session with my old group that had to be audio due to internet issues, but by then I kind of knew their mannerisms. It's also easier not to talk over someone if you can see they are about to say something.